The debate as to which is correct, Advaita or Neo Advaita doesn’t interest me. More mind stuff. The only question is, are “you” suffering? If so, then this “you” who is suffering needs to be seriously and deeply investigated fully, 100%, to see if it really is You!
Otherwise, like it or not, you are taking on “someone else’s” suffering!? If the suffering “belongs” to an imagined entity, then what has it got to do with You??
Since you are what is aware of the “me” and its endless stories, is it not obvious that you cannot be the imagined “me”?? Let the “one” who is claiming the problem sort it out. You stay home/still knowing in your heart that all is well.