WHOLENESS is what we seek, and it doesn’t come from another person


For those of us who are “single”…

A thought/feeling (even unconsciously) can arise that truly believes that we would be happier if only we met the “right” person. As compelling as this thought/belief may feel, is it true? “Can you absolutely know that having someone in your life will make you truly happy?” as Byron Katie would say.

WHOLENESS is what we seek, and it doesn’t come from another person. It comes from noticing and living from/as the pure non-dual formless space of your Being. That which is not a thought, but is silently AWARE of all the thoughts that come and go. Get to know this one that is always PRESENT, but is usually overlooked because it has never come or gone. (Like the car windshield, we rarely notice it because we are always looking through it as we drive… and yet it’s never not there!)

So if you do find yourself currently “single,” what an auspicious time to get to know yourself. No distractions! And the beautiful thing is, should that person happen to appear in your life, you will have “done the work.” You will be able to meet them (and everyone else!!) directly, purely, openly… from a place of WHOLENESS, LOVE, PRESENCE and NON-ATTACHMENT, rather than from lack, neediness, control or incompleteness.

In other words, instead of trying to “get” LOVE, you see that you ARE LOVE itself. The former is a doing, the latter a Being which no one can give you or take away from you because it is not personal.

~Michael Jeffreys



2 Responses

  1. Wow.. Wow.. Wow!!! Masterful. All best, Michael An’gileo (The Bluelite Message) Date: Wed, 24 Jul 2013 03:54:43 +0000 To: michaelangileo@hotmail.com

  2. Beautiful message, thank you for sharing it and raising consciousness!

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